Compared

avenly.io vs thebigdays: which suits your wedding?

Both give every guest a personal RSVP link and handle seating and QR check-in for weddings in Singapore and Malaysia. thebigdays sends WhatsApp and SMS blasts to your whole list at once with paid credits; avenly.io sends from your own WhatsApp, family by family, and adds a live guest photo wall and invites in English, 中文, French and Japanese. thebigdays is S$65 / RM199 per wedding; avenly.io is free for up to 30 guests, then a one-time US$15.

  • Checked 22 October 2026
  • Facts from thebigdays' own site
  • Where they win, we say so
01Which to pick

The short version.

Pick thebigdays to send in bulk

Its WhatsApp and SMS blasts reach hundreds of guests in one go, with sent, delivered and read status. Messages use fixed templates and paid credits.

Pick thebigdays for offline check-in

Its check-in works without a connection, with an angpao log. Helpers use the thebigdays app.

Pick avenly.io for messages from you

Each family gets your own words from your own WhatsApp number, and the queue makes sending one by one quick.

Pick avenly.io for the photos

Guests share photos to a live wall on the venue screen. Afterwards, download them all in one go and share your favourites in a gallery.

Pick avenly.io for more languages

One link shows the invite in English, 中文, French or Japanese, and each guest switches for themselves.

Pick avenly.io to start free

Plan the whole wedding free up to 30 guests with no time limit, then pay US$15 once if your list is bigger.

02Side by side

Feature by feature.

thebigdays' details are from its own website; avenly.io's from the product today.

Featureavenly.iothebigdays
PriceFree up to 30 guests; US$15 once per event after thatS$65 / RM199 once per wedding, lifetime access
Free optionFree plan up to 30 guests, no time limit14-day trial up to 30 guests
Personal link per householdYes, greets the family by name with their party listedYes, unique RSVP and QR link per guest or group
WhatsApp sendingFrom your own number, one family at a time with a queueBulk blasts from a business sender with read status (paid credits, fixed templates)
Other channelsSMS, email, Telegram, WeChat and more, through your own appsSMS blasts
Meals and plus-onesYes, per guest, with dietary notesYes, with custom questions
Guest list importPaste from WhatsApp or notes, or CSV/Excel; AI sorts householdsExcel import
SeatingFrom the venue's floor plan; AI finds the tablesTable planner with grid and list views
Check-inQR or name search in any phone browser; several helpers at onceQR or name search, works offline; helpers use the app
Entry pass in phone walletYes, Apple Wallet and Google WalletNot listed
Gifts at the doorYes, with a printable listYes, angpao log
Guest photosLive photo wall on the venue screen, plus a gallery afterwards with albums and guest tagsNot listed (pre-wedding photo gallery)
Guest page languagesEnglish, 中文, French, Japanese on one linkNot listed
App for guestsNoNo

thebigdays' details were checked on thebigdays.com on 22 October 2026; its regular price is shown without the current voucher. "Not listed" means we couldn't find it on their site. Spot something out of date? Tell us on WhatsApp and we'll fix it.

03Questions

Questions, answered.

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Is avenly.io cheaper than thebigdays?

Yes, at the time of checking. thebigdays is S$65 / RM199 per wedding. avenly.io is free for up to 30 guests, and Event Premium is a one-time US$15 for unlimited guests.

Can avenly.io bulk-send WhatsApp invitations like thebigdays?

No. avenly.io sends from your own WhatsApp, one family after another, with the message ready in each chat. If one-tap bulk sending to hundreds of guests matters most, thebigdays does that with paid credits.

Do both give each guest a personal link?

Yes. Both give each guest or household its own RSVP link. On avenly.io, the same link later becomes the entry pass and shows the table after check-in.

Which one has a guest photo wall?

avenly.io. Guests share photos from their phones to a live wall on the venue screen, and afterwards you can download them all and share the best in a gallery. thebigdays' site lists a pre-wedding photo gallery.

Can I switch from thebigdays to avenly.io?

Yes. Copy your guest list from Excel or paste it as text, and avenly.io sorts it into households for you to check.

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